Faith is still a fairly new concept for me. For 21 years now I have considered myself a Christian. Unlike most black Americans I did not grow up in the church or follow any particular faith at all. There were many reasons for that, not the least of which is I simply did not believe what I couldn’t see. Part of what led me to finally accept the Lord was looking back at my life and realizing how blessed I was when things could have gone awry. While I have been dutiful in praying, going to church and trying to live a life that the Lord would approve of, I have fallen short many times and have had my faith tested in many ways. The latest example being the last two weeks.
My wife had a health scare which could have shaken us to the core. She had a condition which, when she read up on it, was very symptomatic of cancer. We prayed on it every day and reminded ourselves that it could be any number of things but one can’t help but fear the worst. As much as I tell myself, and have been told by others, that God doesn’t make mistakes, we shouldn’t question him and that he knows what he’s doing, you can’t help what you feel. I found myself angry at God, questioning the fairness of it all, trying to be as supportive as I could of my wife while trying to hold it together myself. Like many others we claimed that 2018 would be a year of prosperity and breakthroughs but how could that be if the worst case scenario were true? Our sons are still teenagers and they need their mother. My wife should not spend the best years of her life undergoing surgeries and treatments which are not even guaranteed 100% success. Yet we’re still supposed to be thankful and full of praise.
In spite of my feelings I did the only thing I could do, stay in prayer. After all, we didn’t know what the condition was for a fact and even if worst came to worst it was early enough to treat it and beat it. I spent more time praying in the spirit not just for my wife’s health but for emotional and spiritual health for us all. There would be no reason for the Lord to help us if we curse and reject him now, especially for something that hadn’t even been confirmed. Perhaps this was just a test, perhaps it was Satan messing with us, and Satan certainly will. Perhaps we were merely being impatient and overly anxious. Whatever it was, could anyone really blame us?
Then we got the news. It wasn’t cancer! It was a viral condition which, over time, will run it’s course, not ideal but way better than having cancer. Instead of fear, anxiety and uncertainty we now feel relief and absolute gratitude. If anyone asks, “Won’t He do it?” the answer is an absolute yes!
What is the takeaway from this? Number one, prayer works! You have to not just say the words but to believe that they are at least being heard. Number two, you can’t lose faith or disconnect ourselves from our problem solver. I’ve also come to accept that fear, uncertainty and even occasional anger at God are sometimes okay. We are still human and we are still entitled to our emotions. The key is channeling those emotions the right way. Instead of lashing out at God, I simply prayed harder not just for healing for my wife but for emotional and spiritual strength for both of us. When Job had everything taken from him, his family, his wealth and his health, he was bitter against God for allowing his life to fall apart but when his wife told him to curse God and die, he would do no such thing. He knew that God was the one who gave him everything that he lost in the first place. His reward for his faith was being blessed with everything he lost in greater abundance. What the Lord eventually has in store for us remains to be seen but we already claim the good things he has to offer. As long as Satan exists we know that there will likely be temptations, trials and tribulations but that’s why we continue to pray for understanding how to deal with it. What proof do we need that what we pray for and claim will come to fruition? We need nothing more than the numerous blessings we’ve been bestowed with over the last several decades. The question will no longer be “Won’t he do it?” but to merely state “He did it!”